dinsdag 24 december 2013

Naughty X-mas and a kinky new year!

I think we all know how most traditional families spend X-mas, but what about kinky couples? Do you wear red and white latex with your sub having some reindeer horns on and a red nose? Of course tying up your sub with some X-mas decoration seems like an interesting way to introduce the holiday spirit into your kink lifestyle. So what about celebrating the new year? Well I saw this video of a guy who had a rocket up his butt, seems kinky but mostly painful and stupid. Still if that´s your thing then go for it! But for all the romantic souls there is nothing better than just spending the countdown together with the one you love and kiss when it´s the new year. It might seem a bit old fashioned but sometimes the old ways are the best!

What is a naughty X-mas? I can tell you what it´s not, it´s not singing around a tree and wearing a sweet reindeer sweater that your mother knitted for you. Instead of being a good boy or girl, this time you´re being a naughty boy or girl! Still the part of spending X-mas with the ones you love is possible as long as you keep it naughty! Maybe keep some latex under your casual clothing, that seems rather naughty to me. Just don´t forget that people who are naughty secretly want to get caught, so you might want to be careful about introducing kink into your vanilla family X-mas party.

My X-mas will be a shiny one, but for that matter it´s X-mas almost every day for me! I try to mix things up a bit though for X-mas, maybe some more colours in my outfit? Unfortunately there is no snow here so I can´t make any latex in the snow pictures, perhaps whipped cream is a good alternative? I know that it´s sweeter! I think the most important part of X-mas to me is to have some time for myself, which might seem a bit weird but some time for just myself is actually quite nice. Of course if I get lonely I can always invite some friends to spice things up, so don´t worry about me!

A kinky new year, what does that mean? It means that you celebrate the new year in a special way! What usually works for me is wearing something shiny and go crazy! It´s more fun to have company but if you decide to spend the last day of the year alone then you can still do it kinky! Just be creative and above all don´t let anything stop you!

I wish you all a naughty X-mas and a kinky new year!

zaterdag 21 december 2013

Season of leather

Most people already wear leather in Autumn but you can be certain that Winter will often grand you a large group of people wearing leather clothing. So everyone with a leather fetish should be quite happy. Even if you don´t like the cold you might want to go outside and spoil your eyes with some leather goodness! Because before you know it we´re back in Spring and then leather sightings in the open might be a bit more rare, I guess it does depend how the weather is where you live but I´d say most people usually switch to something different when it gets warmer.

I love leather, the way it feels and the way it smells. When I see someone walking in leather then that has my attention, I love the sight of people walking in leather and it makes Winter a great season for me. The beauty of leather is that it´s not just something that feels good, it also keeps you warm! But that´s also something that keeps people from wearing leather out in the open in the middle of Summer. Unless you´re as extreme as me, then you might sweat a lot but you still wear your favourite material! But Winter has just started and so we´re in the middle of some beautiful leather sightings.

People that wear leather are into kink? Oh I wouldn´t say that, I guess some people just like it or prefer to wear it because it keeps them warm. But since there are more materials that can keep you warm you can ask yourself why they would choose leather instead of something else? Leather can also give you a tougher look, so maybe that also has something to do with it. I wouldn´t think that everyone that wears leather is into kink, as much as I would love it to be that way. I think latex says a bit more about the wearer, people who wear latex are often into kink and yet that´s still not a guarantee. Just because you like to wear something doesn´t mean you´re into kink.

What I like to do when I wear leather is meet other people who also like to wear leather, we rub our bodies against eachother and have some fun enjoying eachothers fetish. Even an innocent vanilla housewife will be tempted to rub her body against another sexy leather body. I think leather can be a huge turn on, even if it´s not a fetish for you. I think it looks good on people, even when it´s pink. Of course I wouldn´t want to wear pink leather myself but I wouldn´t mind biting someone who would wear that. That´s another thing I like about leather, it´s quite strong so if I rub against it or bite it then it can handle that. Unfortunately the person wearing leather can´t always handle that....

zondag 15 december 2013

Sex dreams

Have you ever had a dream where you had sex with someone else? I think we all had those type of dreams, but what if that person wasn´t someone you would expect to be in a sex dream with? I don´t think I have to mention how awkward that can be, but maybe it can also be quite interesting. That friend you like and who is always there for you, maybe you can be more than friends? That colleague that´s always nice to you and with whom you have pleasant conversations, how about sharing a cup of coffee together somewhere private?

Is a sex dream a hidden desire to have sex with someone? I doubt it goes that deep, sometimes your dreams just go wild and that might lead to some strange situations in dreams. If you have absolutely no feelings for someone and you´re not interested in him or her in any way then I wouldn´t be too worried about it. Sure you might get a red head out of nowhere being around that person but there are plenty of excuses for that, so I wouldn´t be too worried about that. But if it´s a dream about someone you do like and you secretly do have feelings for then maybe you might want to explore that a little bit further. Of course the same rules apply when it´s a sex dream about someone you´re not interested in, because it doesn´t have to mean anything. But the real question is, do you tell the other person you had a sex dream about him or her?

This is completely in your hands, you don´t have to say anything you don´t want to. Especially if you´re very embarrassed about it, I wouldn´t recommend telling other people about it. Unless you completely trust someone with that information, I´d still keep it pretty casual, because going into great detail might make it funny for the other when it´s difficult for you to talk about it. I wouldn´t use it as an opening line to asking someone out, telling someone you had a sex dream about him or her might not always work out so well for you. That´s really something you tell a good friend or someone you just trust completely. Of course you can always give it a shot, you could tell someone that you had a sex dream about him or her. Who knows someone might find it interesting and it could be the start of something, but it could also make someone laugh at you or scare someone away. So you might want to be careful about sharing such information with someone.

What if the dream becomes reality? Well first of all congratulations, I don´t think all of us could say that! But seriously you shouldn´t think too much of the dream and definately don´t compare the sex with what happened in the dream. If the other brings it up then you can talk about it but definately don´t go into great detail. Because no matter how nice a sex dream can be, nothing beats the real thing!