Sex dreams

Have you ever had a dream where you had sex with someone else? I think we all had those type of dreams, but what if that person wasn´t someone you would expect to be in a sex dream with? I don´t think I have to mention how awkward that can be, but maybe it can also be quite interesting. That friend you like and who is always there for you, maybe you can be more than friends? That colleague that´s always nice to you and with whom you have pleasant conversations, how about sharing a cup of coffee together somewhere private?

Is a sex dream a hidden desire to have sex with someone? I doubt it goes that deep, sometimes your dreams just go wild and that might lead to some strange situations in dreams. If you have absolutely no feelings for someone and you´re not interested in him or her in any way then I wouldn´t be too worried about it. Sure you might get a red head out of nowhere being around that person but there are plenty of excuses for that, so I wouldn´t be too worried about that. But if it´s a dream about someone you do like and you secretly do have feelings for then maybe you might want to explore that a little bit further. Of course the same rules apply when it´s a sex dream about someone you´re not interested in, because it doesn´t have to mean anything. But the real question is, do you tell the other person you had a sex dream about him or her?

This is completely in your hands, you don´t have to say anything you don´t want to. Especially if you´re very embarrassed about it, I wouldn´t recommend telling other people about it. Unless you completely trust someone with that information, I´d still keep it pretty casual, because going into great detail might make it funny for the other when it´s difficult for you to talk about it. I wouldn´t use it as an opening line to asking someone out, telling someone you had a sex dream about him or her might not always work out so well for you. That´s really something you tell a good friend or someone you just trust completely. Of course you can always give it a shot, you could tell someone that you had a sex dream about him or her. Who knows someone might find it interesting and it could be the start of something, but it could also make someone laugh at you or scare someone away. So you might want to be careful about sharing such information with someone.

What if the dream becomes reality? Well first of all congratulations, I don´t think all of us could say that! But seriously you shouldn´t think too much of the dream and definately don´t compare the sex with what happened in the dream. If the other brings it up then you can talk about it but definately don´t go into great detail. Because no matter how nice a sex dream can be, nothing beats the real thing!