zaterdag 7 juni 2014

How do you know that someone has a kinky side?

It´s not easy to figure that out, especially if someone keeps that side hidden. It might be tempting to assume things but that could turn ugly if you´re wrong, so the best thing you can do if you want to be certain is just ask. But try to be subtle about it, asking directly might be invasive even for a friend! So instead of asking if someone has a kinky side you could ask how they feel about wearing latex or leather. It doesn´t have to mean anything but at least it gives you an idea, the other person will probably want to know why you ask that and this could give you the chance to tell them a bit about your kinky side.


If you´re afraid that you´ll scare someone away then just be patient, it´s not that you need to know these things on the first date. Besides if you like someone then like someone for who they are, not for having the same interests as you. Of course it´s nice if you both have the same interests, but I don´t think that this is something that is required to make a relationship work. Talking is never a bad thing, so if you want to try something new then it´s not a bad idea to talk about it with your partner. If you have a kinky side then suggest something that turns you on, once again being subtle is the key. For example telling your girlfriend that you´d like the Catwoman outfit and wouldn´t mind seeing her dressed like that is a good way to introduce some roleplay in the bedroom. Of course this isn´t something you introduce to a relationship in the first week, once again patience is often rewarded!


If someone wears a leather jacket or leather pants then that means he or she has a kinky side? If only it was that simple, but no it doesn´t have to mean that someone has a kinky side. Some people just like wearing leather or people that ride on a motorcycle wear leather to stay warm. So it´s a good idea not to assume something purely based on what someone is wearing. But there are outfits that will probably strongly suggest that someone has a kinky side, but you don´t often see people wear that in public.


The best way to meet people with a kinky side is online, people are more open online and there are several sites where kinky people meet eachother. You might even find people you know on such sites, which might be a pleasant suprise. It´s not impossible to find other people like you, but it can sometimes be tough. So instead of trying to look for people just like you, it might be a good idea to meet just friendly people that are fun to hang around with. A kinky side isn´t the most important part of someone!

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