maandag 28 oktober 2013

I´m horny all the time!

At first you´d probably say that you don´t see this as a problem, but remember that there are situations where you probably don´t want to feel that way. For example when you have to do a presentation, during a job interview, meeting the parents of your boyfriend or girlfriend, when you´re babysitting and there are probably many more situations where it´s not something you want to experience. Everything has a time and a place and being horny all the time doesn´t seem like something you want, at least I can´t imagine anyone who wants to feel that way.

I think even in a relationship the other might get enough of sex after a couple of weeks, especially when this person doesn´t have this horny feeling all the time. You can be nice and play along, but really after some time it must really get annoying. Especially when you´re absolutely not in the mood for sex! Refusing someone once for sex doesn´t have to be bad, but do it a couple of times and the other might think you´re no longer attracted to him or her. So always be careful about just saying no, sometimes it´s better to explain why you´re not into sex. Definately don´t point any fingers at someone, because that doesn´t help anyone! Someone doesn´t choose to be horny all the time, this is just something that happens. But to be fair I think that someone that is horny all the time shouldn´t expect his or her partner to always be in the mood as well. Once again communication can be a good way to handle this. Maybe with some regular sex you can find some more balance, if not then there is always a good chance that things will become less wild when you get older. But I wouldn´t guarantee that, some people are just hot!

What can I do when I´m horny but don´t want to feel this way? The smartest thing would be to think about things that don´t turn you on, you can even go so far as to think of things that disgust you. But also try to avoid things that might turn you on, which isn´t always that easy. Imagine working somewhere and you have to wear rubber gloves, if rubber gloves turn you on then you might be in trouble. I wouldn´t say change your job but you might want to wear some cloth gloves under your rubber gloves and probably not look at the other workers. There is nothing wrong with feeling horny, but you might not want that feeling all the time. So you could distract yourself with something hot or cold, for example some ice cream or a cup of tea. You could always bite on your tongue, but for some people pain is also a turn on. So really you probably know yourself what works best for you to counter an unwanted horny feeling. Just don´t be ashamed of it, because it´s a natural feeling and deep down inside you know it feels good!

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